Sex & Pornography Addiction

INDIVIDUAL THERAPY FOR SEX ADDICTS / PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTS

GROUP THERAPY FOR SEX ADDICTS

COUPLES THERAPY FOR SEX ADDICTS

INDIVIDUAL THERAPY FOR SPOUSES OF SEX ADDICTS


The Internet has brought along with it many great gifts and also real problems. In the past, access to pornography and illicit sex was limited by the time, money, and difficulty that were required to obtain it. The Internet has changed all that. Today someone seeking pornography or various sexual encounters has only to go to their home computer to find anything they are looking for and much more. The Internet enables people who might not otherwise get addicted easy access to unlimited quantities of pornography and easy opportunities for problematic sexual behavior.

Sex addiction can be defined as repeated unwanted sexual behavior. It affects men and women, single and married, young and old. When someone has decided that he wants to stop acting out sexually -- whether online or in real-life -- and he repeatedly finds that he cannot stop, no matter how hard he tries, he may be suffering from sex addiction. Some of the areas of acting out include Internet pornography, one-night stands, prostitution, anonymous sex, massage parlors, strip clubs, and more.

Thankfully, there is a way out. If you find yourself struggling with unwanted sexual activity, whether online or offline, you can get help. I have extensive experience working with sex addicts, and with the right support, people can recover and find sobriety and serenity in their lives.



Self-Assessment for Sex Addiction

  1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual behavior or romantic fantasies from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?
             Yes_____   No_____
  2. Have your desires driven you to have sex in places or with people you would not normally choose?
             Yes_____   No_____
  3. Do you need greater variety, increased frequency, or more extreme sexual activities to achieve the same level of excitement or relief?
             Yes_____   No_____
  4. Does your use of pornography occupy large amounts of time and/or jeopardize your significant relationships or employment?
             Yes_____   No_____
  5. Do your relationships become distorted with sexual preoccupation? Does each new relationship have the same destructive pattern which prompted you to leave the last one?
             Yes_____   No_____
  6. Do you frequently want to get away from a partner after having sex? Do you feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
             Yes_____   No_____
  7. Have your sexual practices caused you legal problems? Could your sexual practices cause you legal problems?
             Yes_____   No_____
  8. Does your pursuit of sex or sexual fantasy conflict with your moral standards or interfere with your personal spiritual journey?
             Yes_____   No_____
  9. Do your sexual activities involve coercion, violence, or the threat of disease?
             Yes_____   No_____
  10. Has your sexual behavior or pursuit of sexual relationships ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?
             Yes_____   No_____
  11. Does your preoccupation with sexual fantasies cause problems in any area of your life - even when you do not act out your fantasies?
             Yes_____   No_____
  12. Do you compulsively avoid sexual activity due to fear of sex or intimacy? Does your sexual avoidance consume you mentally?
             Yes_____   No_____

If you answered “Yes” to more than one of these questions, we encourage you to seek help.

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